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DIVORCES DON'T HAPPEN SUDDENLY/ Mistakes made by every husband and wife and how to correct them.

Conversation between Husband and wife Wife (angrily) "I want a divorce" Husband (annoyed) " shut the HELL UP" Wife "Conscience does make cowards of us all. See this is your problem,  you just run away from the issues that needs your attention" Husband " what's the issue?" Wife "I feel lonely even with you sitting next to me, we hardly talk with each other" Husband " what do you mean I don't talk!! for God sake we live together and how is that possible we don't talk at all" Wife " yes you talk only when you want to give me some work " Where is my tie or socks? The food is bland. set the table. Turn off the lights." This is all you say." and you never appreciate me for anything so I feel worthless in your eyes and it's always criticism that I hear from you about how I didn't do something properly or how am not a good mother or how lazy person I am when I'm not abl...

The horrors of judgment day/ resurrection day.

JUDGMENT DAY. 1st trumpet:- commencement of the dooms day. Where everything will perish except Allah The Lord Of The Worlds. Then after a period of 40 days, months or years- only Allah knows best how long 40 days mean here.  It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, ‘What is between the two Trumpet-blasts will be forty.’ Somebody asked, ‘Forty days?’ But I could not answer. Then he asked, ‘Forty months?’ But I could not answer. Then he asked, ‘Forty years?’ But I could not answer.” Abu Hurayrah added, “Then (after this period) Allah will send water from the sky and then the dead bodies will grow like vegetation grows. There is nothing of the human body that does not decay except one bone; that is the little bone at the end of the coccyx from which the human body will be recreated on the Day of Resurrection.”  (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4651 2) State of the people when resur...

Mentality of Indian husbands.

Why do Indian husbands have a hard time impressing their wives ? The husband might like one thing but the wife may not. Less understanding between the couples. If today, he gifts a cell phone, tomorrow she might expect a tablet. More greed. If today, he gets her a bouquet of roses, she may or may not like it. Maybe she wants a cake, balloons along with it. Likes & dislikes vary. No satisfaction If this year they have gone to the Maldives, next year must be a Dubai trip and not anywhere in and around India. Very much stubborn. And, Many husbands find it extremely hard to impress their wives because the list or expectations just do not end from the wives perspective, neither they are happy with what they have. Sometimes they(the wives) compare their life with that of their friends, their social media, WhatsApp updates, photos, romantic dinners, photoshoots etc and discuss these with their husbands thinking their husbands will also take her to that place someday. I read this message o...